1. HURT

2. HATE

3. HOOK

4. HEAL

1. MOTIVATION for forgiving

2. MYTHS about forgiving

A. When you FORGIVE, you FORGET

B. Forgiveness means what they did was RIGHT

C. Forgiveness means EXEMPTION from judgement

D. Forgiveness means RECONCILIATION

3. MARKERS that you have forgiven

A. You QUIT talking about it

B. You don't want the person to feel GUILTY

C. When you make a DECISION to forgive, God makes a DEPOSIT